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An Innate Fear?? <3

Posted on: March 14, 2010

I think that we as people are innately afraid of others that challenge us to be better without meaning to because we are afraid of failing, but those others are the kind of people who forgive us and help us up despite the falls that we take. We spend so much of our time trying to be accepted and trying to be “good enough” in the eyes of others that we often don’t realize the number of people who do accept us just the way we are.  Some people don’t spend all their time picking apart our flaws or our tiny imperfections they just focus on the positive attributes and the ways in which they can help us.  As people, we spend much of our time longing for things we can never have because we think we can make them work, we like the challenge, we like to know that “we did something”, but in reality we can’t make things work out if there is no one to help us, we can’t change the world until we change ourselves, and we never know what we have until it’s gone.

So this weeks challenge: Look at the positive in others and cling to those who see it in you.  Work on becoming the kind of friend a friend would like to have and learn to trust other people.

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  • Britany: Write this after seeing Alice in Wonderland, did we? I like it!

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